A spring break trip to Waco, Texas last month landed us at the Magnolia Market, the home of the design and decor empire founded by HGTV’s Chip and Joanna Gaines. We were well aware of the Gaines’ Christian faith before we arrived. And true to form, beautiful items of home decor incorporating Bible verses into their designs surrounded us as we toured the store and grounds.
The sign in the picture above took me back to our wedding, on a muggy June day in 1985. It’s a complete rendering of 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, known as the “Love Chapter.” And it’s beautiful.
Back in the mid-1980s, I didn’t know much about the verses in 1 Corinthians 13. I knew it was trendy to read those verses in Christian weddings, but that was about it. At the time, I’d been a Christian for only about 10 years. I was just 22, and hadn’t even begun to spiritually mature. Reading these verses at my wedding just made sense.
Now, after 34 years of marriage and a whole lot of living, it’s clear to me that these verses aren’t just for weddings.
“What’s love got to do with it?” Tina Turner asked in her iconic 1980s hit. And this question could easily represent our culture’s approach to life. Other than romantic love, which today is mixed up in so many ways, what does “love” have to do with business? With life? Consider this:
Who gets better results, the doctor with a terrible bedside manner, or the caring professional?
The secret of the care of the patient is caring for the patient. — Francis W. Peabody, M.D., 1925
Love is patient, love is kind. – 1 Cor. 13:4
Which leader gets better results, the one who claims all the glory for himself, or the one who involves and gives credit to his team?
Love does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking. – 1 Cor. 13:4-5
Which police officer provides better public safety, the one who sees his beat as “just a job,” or the dedicated public servant who truly cares about the welfare of the community he serves?
Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. – 1 Cor. 13:7
Which teacher’s students perform better, the teacher who loathes spending time with children, or the one who cherishes the young lives he or she is entrusted with and wants to guide them on the path toward becoming strong, functioning adults?
And for you ladies, which hairsylist do you look forward to seeing again every four weeks, the one who only cares about collecting your fee, or the one who makes you feel beautiful just because of the time you spent with her?
And finally, who has the happier life, the one who holds on to perceived slights, or the one who freely forgives others?
Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. – Saint Augustine
Love keeps no record of wrongs. – 1 Cor. 13:5
So, as Tina asked, what does love have to do with it? Only this:
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. – 1 Cor. 1-3
Without love, whatever I say means nothing.
Without love, regardless of what I can do, I am nothing.
Without love, I gain nothing.
The bottom line? Love is…everything.